Navigating Relationship Crossroads through Counselling (with Susan Lackner)
In this episode with host Whitney Sloan and guest expert Susan Lackner, we examine the complex dynamics of relationships in the modern world. We discuss the role of relationship counselling, the challenges and expectations of monogamy, the potential of open relationships as an alternative, and the significant decisions around marriage and separation. We also discuss the changing landscape of relationships as more people question traditional norms and community attitudes that have shaped our decision making..
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The Role of Marriage Counselling in Modern Relationships
Relationship and marriage counselling is a lifeline for couples navigating the complexities of modern relationships. It provides a safe space for open communication, helping couples understand their needs and desires. It’s a tool for renegotiation at different life stages, preventing dissatisfaction and disconnect. Regular check-ins and open communication are key to maintaining a healthy relationship.
Monogamy and its Challenges
Monogamy, a traditional norm, is being increasingly questioned today. The expectation of one partner fulfilling all roles can lead to pressure and dissatisfaction. It’s important to remember that it’s okay to question these norms and find what works best for you. It’s about understanding your needs and desires and communicating them effectively.
Open Relationships as an Alternative
Open relationships offer an alternative to monogamy. They provide excitement and freshness but require clear communication, understanding, and mutual agreement. It’s about finding a balance that suits both partners. Open relationships can be a viable option for those who seek variety and excitement in their relationships.
Marriage and Separation Decisions
Marriage and separation are significant life decisions. It’s crucial to explore all options thoroughly, seeking professional guidance if necessary, before making such decisions. It’s about making choices that best serve your happiness and well-being. It’s important to remember that it’s okay to make changes if something isn’t working.
The Changing Landscape of Relationships
The landscape of relationships is changing. More people are questioning traditional norms and seeking fulfilment in their own unique ways. Whether it’s through relationship counselling, exploring open relationships, or making tough decisions about marriage and separation, the journey is deeply personal and different for everyone. It’s about finding what makes you happy and fulfilled in your relationships.
In conclusion, the landscape of relationships is continuously evolving, with traditional norms being re-evaluated and new alternatives being considered. The journey through these changes is deeply personal and unique to each individual. It’s about understanding one’s needs and desires, communicating them effectively, and making choices that best serve one’s well-being.
Our favourite quotable moments:
“The shame needs to stop, because there are so many people that stay in relationships that are really toxic.” - Susan Lackner
“I think it’s so important that people have their freedom to do what they want and to be what they want.” - Susan Lackner
“We’re biologically designed to attach to other humans. So we will always want to have relationships.” - Susan Lackner
“Most people become really complacent. And if you do not nurture that relationship, you will not get the reward.” - Susan Lackner
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About Susan:
Susan is the founder of Melbourne Specialist Relationship Counselling Clinic (MSRCC). She has a degree in Psychology and has completed two Masters Degrees in Social Science and Couple Counselling. She is a Specialist Couple and Relationship Therapist and Therapist Supervisor. She is also a member of the Society of Australian Sexologists, and guest lectures at Swinburne University for Masters of Couple Counselling students. Susan created MSRCC after Susan encountered many distressed couples seeking her services, reporting they were having difficulty finding a therapist who specialised in relationship issues and could remain impartial, balanced and assist them to overcome their relationship distress, irrespective of the outcome.
Susan is extremely passionate about working with couples and individuals to assist in developing happiness, well-being and contentment. She believes that self-growth needs to be continuous, as we all face challenging and difficult circumstances during some stages of our lives.
About Your Host:
Don't let her American accent fool you; Whitney Sloan has called Melbourne, Australia home for over 20 years. Mom of 3, with a rambunctious pup named Tux, Whitney finds peace in the ocean – swimming, connecting, and becoming the best version of herself. Deep conversations and genuine connections fuel her. Join Whitney's supportive community for women at life's crossroads, where open communication paves the way to rewrite your story.
