Journey to Should I Stay or Should I Go: Episode 1
The weight of a "failing" marriage can feel like an anchor dragging you down. You built a life, a family, and a future you envisioned with your partner. But somewhere along the way, the spark dimmed, replaced by a dull ache of discontent. The question that echoes in the quiet corners of your mind: Should I stay or should I go?
This first episode of "Should I Stay or Should Go?" dives headfirst into the messy reality of questioning your marriage. Host Whitney Sloan doesn't shy away from the raw emotions – the fear, the guilt, the confusion. But more importantly, she offers a lifeline, a glimmer of hope that divorce doesn't have to be a villain in your story.
In this episode, you'll learn about:
The Cost of Staying vs. the Courage to Leave
Have you ever felt like you're going through the motions, existing in a relationship devoid of passion and connection? Whitney unpacks the emotional toll of staying in a marriage that’s no longer working. She encourages you to explore the courage it takes to walk away; not from fear or blame, but from a place of self-love and a desire for a more vibrant life.
Breaking Free from Societal Expectations
We're bombarded with images of the "perfect" marriage – a happily ever after that feels increasingly out of reach. Whitney challenges that narrative, questioning the assumption that longevity equals success. You'll discover how to rewrite your definition of a fulfilling relationship, one that prioritizes your own happiness and growth.
Guilt, Shame, and the Myth of Failure
Divorce is often painted as a personal failing, a stain on your life story. This episode dismantles that narrative. You'll learn strategies to navigate the guilt and shame that often accompany the decision to leave. Whitney helps you understand that divorce can be a necessary step towards reclaiming your agency and building a future that aligns with your values.
Building a Support System for Your Journey
Navigating divorce is rarely a solitary endeavor. Whitney emphasizes the importance of building a supportive network during this challenging time. She encourages you to reach out to friends, family, and councilors who can offer guidance and understanding.
Redefining Success in Relationships
What does a "successful" relationship look like for you? Whitney encourages you to move beyond societal expectations and define what matters most in your partnerships. Maybe it's open communication, shared goals, or the ability to support each other's growth. This episode is a precursor to future episodes that will help us explore and identify your relationship deal breakers and pursue connections that truly nourish your soul.
This episode isn't just about divorce; it's about rediscovering your voice and reclaiming your power. This episode is a powerful resource for women questioning their marriages, offering a chance to rewrite the script and create a future that is filled with joy, not just obligation.
Our favourite quotable moments:
“It wasn't black and white for me. I had loved my husband and our relationship. I thought I was one of the lucky ones."
"The question was not whether my life was good enough or whether he was good enough. It's whether it was enough for me.”
"Why do people always say, ‘Oh my God, I'm so sorry,’ when they hear you're divorced? This could be the absolute best thing that has ever happened to someone."
Resources:
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Stay longer - visit the Should I Stay website.
About Your Host:
Don't let her American accent fool you; Whitney Sloan has called Melbourne, Australia home for over 20 years. Mom of 3, with a rambunctious pup named Tux, Whitney finds peace in the ocean – swimming, connecting, and becoming the best version of herself. Deep conversations and genuine connections fuel her. Join Whitney's supportive community for women at life's crossroads, where open communication paves the way to rewrite your story.
